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Dad-- memories of you

💕So, Dad, here we are to say goodbye for now. You always talked about the idea that life wasn’t about reaching a destination, but instead, that life was a journey to be enjoyed while appreciating the small things along the way…And you certainly lived a fulfilling, impactful life where you did appreciate the little things, like when you would draw my attention to the hospital window to notice the clouds, or the birds, or how blue the sky was. You talked about the water and the waves you could see at South St. beach, which, I guess, came from your love of swimming at  Big Glace Bay, where the cool, sometimes frigid temperatures of the ocean water was never even a deterrent for you. Maybe it was the solitude that came with those after supper swims when the beach was nearly empty, but whatever it was, many of your children and grandchildren share that love of ocean waves and the peace that comes with a late day beach trip. Yet I don’t think any of us has mastered your ability to float...

Lewy Body Dementia and Grief: The Diagnosis

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They call it "the long goodbye," and researchers say it takes an immeasurable mental and emotional toll on the families who experience it; my family was no different. My dad was officially diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia (LBD) in 2021, and other than the "dementia" part of the diagnosis, I had no idea what that meant. Sadly, I would soon come to find out that I would be grieving the loss of my dad while he was still living. I have read that  Lewy Body Dementia  is the second most common form of dementia, but it is the least well known. LBD  happens because of abnormal protein deposits inside the brain's nerve cells, and it is estimated that  b etween 10-15 percent of all patients with dementia have LBD. When I read these statistics, selfishly, I felt an immediate sense of panic and fear, wondering whether LBD is genetic. When it comes to diseases like dementia, though, who can ever know for sure, no matter what the research says. After Dad's dia...